Monday, April 25, 2011
Some Highlights From a Recent Spiritual Coaching Session
I have been very busy with Spiritual Coaching and Readings. I am vested in what I do. I put my heart and love into it and sometimes the recipient doesn't like what they hear. It is not my job to be popular. It is my job to empower in whatever way I can the person who is in a coaching relationship with me.
I find that there is a lot of fear in my clients and If I can get to the fear and have them really look at it, things will start to change. During a recent session the person was full of fear and could not pin point where it came from. I had her keep going back in memory to a place where it first started. As I slowly took her back with a light hypnosis she viewed the experience that started this free-floating fear.
She gradually felt the full force of it. She also knew that she had been carrying it around for days. She had done it to herself. There was an incident that occurred when someone said to her that she did not have what it would take to be on her own. This person had said several times that she would never leave him because no one would have her but him. She had a fear of being a bag lady on the street living in shelters and going to soup kitchens. I then asked her to go through some steps to see if this was true!
I pointed out that she was on her own and doing quite well when she met him and if she could do it then, she could do it now. She had already shown that she had what it took to be on her own. Then we went into no one but him being interested in her.
I asked her if anyone had flirted with her recently? She said Yes! I asked her on a scale of one to ten how lovable did she think she was...she said 8! I asked her if she felt that if she could only free herself from her present relationship that she could be happy. She said yes! So, I said, "then nothing he said is true," and I waited for her response. After watching her struggle with this her eyes welled up with tears and she smiled. She could not speak for a few minutes and I just handed her tissues as she wept.
Finally she told me that she had not felt this free in quite some time. She had confronted her worst fears and found they were not true. These negative beliefs were what someone else had conjured up to empower themselves regarding their deep rooted fear that he would get left alone and was consequently creating the very thing he feared! www.makeachoicenow.com